How To Balance Friendships ♡

Answering & solving your guys' problems with friendships ♡ Spreading positivity ♡

Okay, I'm not the best with advice- but I'm definetly know how to get around difficult situations with friends. Sometimes we can be blamed for alot of things. Yes, you should tell and teacher or adult when your friendships are at risk, but you can also follow these simple tips to rescue them! ♡

I asked you guys what are the most stressful things about friendships on my fan account, zoe_fan_xox , and alot of you guys responded with great senarios.

What ever you do, you feel like its wrong or you've upset your friends. - btwitscatherine

True, I'v been through many situations where friends have turned things around to make you feel sorry for them. My friend will always act like she is ashamed of me and I would feel really dissapointed in myself- but you know you can't take so much. You either face them and say how they make you feel in that moment in time, or you play against them. If there someone who wants attention now and then, or is... *psst, a little spoilt* then ignore them, get them to come to you. They will regret what they said or did to make you feel like that, and will aplogize. I went and spoke to a youth worker when I had a problem like this just about a week ago, and its fixed within an hour, hopefully this helped!

That they are going to find someone better - zalfiesxmulti_

That is a problem everyone fears.. but if you have multiple friends then its not a probelm, but many people have a very small circle of people- including me- and the fear they will find someone better is scary for us. I found that the people I make friends online- like my fan account IBFS- are no diffrent to people we will actually meet. Yes, we won't see them at school- but atleast we can come home and facetime, chat or message them. Sometimes, the people that don't have many friends either are actually the best people to be friends with trust me!

Trying to keep them happy all the time - blissful.zoella

Just the question I was hoping for! Nothing is more difficult then balacing your friendships, Making sure to get that sleepover with your best friend, while also not trying to make that other friend who wasen't invited jelous, is hard! But always try and keep in touch with everyone you're close with. Have that sleepover, and facetime the other friend the day before, or something like that- just make them feel not left out!

That we disagree about everything - joe_suggu

I don't usually struggle with these kinda things, but maybe try and get into the things your friends like, or persuade them to like the things you like. If its something like movies, point out all the good things about it- like "its popular" or "there are really creepy bits" or form it into something they are intrested in, like if they love horror movies, and the movie you like has a bit of murder mystery etc. Then say "they are so many scary parts!" or change it up if they like a diffrent kind of genere!

There was SO many others but I haven't got time to finish them all :( But hopefully you enjoyed reading this little helping hand blog post, don't forget to sign up for numerous updates!

Thank you for reading!

~ Sophie xo